1, language, words, encouragement, etc.
2, non-verbal & physical
3, gifts
4, exclusive quality time
5, acts of service
That is from the 5 Languages of Love
by Dr. Gary Chapmen
I realise I have been using the 2nd, 3rd, 4th & 5th
but rarely the 1st one.
When I go shopping, I often think what I can get for who & who, what I can do for who. I long for having 1 to 1 quality time together, hugs & more.
(My puppy love uses mainly the 1st one.
There were lots of disappointment & frustration so it did not work.)
To make relationship work,
know the different styles & different expectations!
Seeing nice stuff or when I create nice
art & designs, I think of them
as gifts to express loves.
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